Brew #17: Valentine's Secret Splurges for You & Your HSC

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Jill Gilbert
February 13, 2025

Raising Highly Sensitive Kids. No Filter.

Hey there, Mama!

These past few weeks, I've had the incredible privilege of talking one-on-one with moms in our community, and something beautiful clicked into place: so many of us raising highly sensitive children are highly sensitive ourselves. (Including me – a revelation I had while understanding my own son's journey!)

That's why this week's newsletter is a love letter to both of you – sensitive mama and sensitive child. Every recommendation, from our cozy weighted plushie to that dreamy hand cream, was thoughtfully chosen (and thoroughly loved) by us. Because you both deserve to feel seen, understood, and absolutely cherished.

In this issue:

  • ✨ The truth about how your HSC experiences love (it explains everything)

  • 🧸 The Target find that's like sending your child a hug when they need it most

  • 💝 The $30 guilty pleasure that made this tired mama cry happy tears

  • 📱 This oddly satisfying app is like meditation for you AND your HSC

Jill

HSC MAMA, FOUNDER & CEO

WHY HSCs FEEL LOVE DIFFERENTLY

The Intensity of Love: Your Highly Sensitive Child's Emotional Superpower

Love isn’t just love for a Highly Sensitive Person—it’s everything. They don’t just feel it; they absorb it, carrying every kind word, affectionate glance, and painful moment deep in their hearts. And guess what? Your highly sensitive child experiences love the same way. A bedtime story, a warm hug, or a simple “I’m proud of you” can fill them up for days—just like a harsh word or an overlooked feeling can linger far longer than you expect.

Understanding this depth of emotion is key to nurturing their sensitive hearts while also helping them build resilience. In this blog, we’re diving into how HSPs experience love, and why it’s both their superpower and struggle.

THE PERFECT WEIGHTED PLUSHIES FOR YOUR HSC

 

This Target Weighted Plushie Set Is The Perfect Valentine's Gift For Your Sensitive Child

Need a last-minute Valentine's gift that speaks straight to your sensitive child's heart? This adorable weighted dog and baby plushie set from Target's Pillowfort™ collection is like a warm hug in stuffed animal form. The gentle pressure from the weights (3lbs for the big pup and 1lb for the baby) combined with the incredibly soft texture creates an instant sense of security and calm - perfect for those moments when your little one needs extra comfort or grounding.

We've got the fox version in our own home and absolutely love it! It has become a favorite during bedtime and even just quiet cuddle time on the couch. It is the perfect stuffy for cuddles as it has just the right resistance and is sooo soft. This new dog and baby version is even more adorable and perfect for when you need a smaller stuffy to-go!

☕ Sip & Support: While "A Cuppa Momsense" is our gift to you, some product links may be affiliates. If you treat yourself, we might get a little something too – at no extra cost to you. It's how we keep the coffee flowing! 💖

THE PERFECT VALENTINE’S DAY TREAT FOR MOM

This $30 Hand Cream Is My Guilty Pleasure (And I'm Not Even Sorry)

Can I share a little secret with you? I've found the most divine hand cream that's become my nightly ritual of "me time," and I'm kind of obsessed. The Amaretto Hand Cream by Nuebiome feels like giving your hands a silky hug – and oh my goodness, the scent is absolutely heavenly!

I know what you're thinking – $30 for hand cream? I had the same thought. But here's the thing: as moms of highly sensitive kiddos, we spend so much time taking care of everyone else that sometimes we forget to treat ourselves. This isn't just hand cream – it's your nightly reminder that you deserve something luxurious too.

What makes it special? It absorbs instantly, smells incredible without being overwhelming (perfect for our sensory-aware families), and leaves your hands feeling baby-soft. Plus, it's free from all the nasties – no parabens, phthalates, or synthetic dyes.

Consider this your permission slip to splurge a little this Valentine's Day. Because after all those sensory meltdowns and emotional support moments, you deserve something that makes you feel pampered and cherished too. ✨

THE SATISFYING COLOR GAME THAT'S STEALING HEARTS

I Love Hue

I've been obsessed with "I Love Hue" for years, and this color-sorting game couldn't be more perfect for Valentine's season. When you need a moment of peace in your day (between meltdowns and mama duties), you can arrange tiles into beautiful color gradients with zero pressure or time limits – it's like meditation in app form.

Why we love it for HSC moms: First, it's genuinely calming. No timer pressure, no flashy animations – just you and some beautiful color transitions. And since highly sensitive kids often excel at noticing subtle details, this could be a perfect quiet activity to share with your little one. It's a gentle way to engage their natural abilities while creating something beautiful together.

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Until next week, sip slowly & savor the calm ☕️